Avoid spending time on things or people that is not worth the well,and not enjoyable being together.
Cos life is too short to be wasted!
If you spend too much energy on somebody you feel uncomfortable with,not feeling the joyfulness of the company let alone constructive relationships partnerships friendships or whateverships maybe : YOU ARE SLOWLY COMMITTING SUICIDE!!
Words is for polishing your thoughts not the other way around. If your thoughts need to be polished by pretty fancy words I say You are a poorly pathetic!